Acts of Kindness

 As Easter is approaching & Pinterest was flooded with ideas of Easter baskets & treats - I ran into one idea that had merit - it was a link via FB from my old RS President back in our Fairfax, VA ward . The link is to this LDS site which lists the scriptures you can read in the 4 Gospels which give an account of Christ's final week.

On a whim - which whims can often go awry with last minute changes - I realized that with it being Palm Sunday a few days ago that we needed to start this.  And so, we changed over from reading in the Doctrine & Covenants and started to give read through the accounts of Christ's life.

I think we need to do more themed Scripture reads - as the children have been so attentive and engaged in our scripture reads...which truthfully, many times I sincerely hope that by going through the actions we will receive some blessing, because there are nights where I wonder if anyone listened, learned or sat through even a minute of what we read!  This week has been different - perhaps it's because we are reading something very sacred & special centering around Christ's life as we approach Easter.  Whatever the reason it is different, I have loved it.  I love having the children ask sincere questions about what we are reading, and that they are actually excited to read!  Last night Bryson worked late, and so the 4 of us sat down to do the reading together and the spirit that was present was beautiful.  I think Heavenly Father knew I needed a healing moment as a mother - and did he ever send one!

I also attribute the reading to a difference in Bryson Jr.'s behavior.  We have a rough go at times with him...okay, a lot of the time it is really hard with him.  He is very intense, and there are extreme emotions that he exhibits - and scripture times have been one of those times when I want to pull my hair out, scream at the top of my lungs down a black hole....or just curl up and hope for some other mother that could come in and do things better.

After we started our reading on Sunday, I noticed a difference in Bryson's behavior the following day (Monday) - I realized he hadn't been in time out once, I hadn't had to remind him how to behave and I hadn't gotten upset at or about something he had done all day.  This was HUGE!  I sat down with him and I told him I was so proud of his behavior and on another whim (wow, these 2 whims proved to be my balm this week!) I pulled out a piece of paper and drew a long box and divided it into 10 squares.   I told Bryson whenever I caught him being good, he would get to put a star in a box and when all 10 were filled up he could choose a prize - either from a goodie box I have, at the Dollar Store, an ice-cream with Mom or Dad or some money if he wanted to choose.  He was so excited and over the past 3 days he has been so good!  He is at 8 stars and would have earned the following 2 tonight, however Madeleine and I ran to do a visit and time home with Dad turned Bryson into a little bit of a crazy character for awhile...until we had scripture time (way too late, but thankfully we did have it!), and then my Bryson was back.  Whew - I was worried a little bit when he started to talk in his funny voice and not listen...I would really like to minimize the time we spend with that side of Bryson Jr....I and I think the family so much prefers the other side of him which shows that he can still be fun, but it's a controlled fun where he doesn't get crazy.

Anyway, I love that he pointed out himself that he hasn't been in time-out at all the past few days.  I asked him if he could feel a difference in the way he is behaving and he said yes - he can tell that things are more calm.  Progress people...that is amazing progress!

So, with the amazing scripture read that we have this week, I also decided that in the spirit of being Christ-like as we study his life this week....we are going to have a Random Acts of Kindness Day....and then when thinking about it more - I wanted to encourage the children by helping them realize every day should be a day we exhibit kindness, so starting today we have 72 hours of concentrated Christ-Like Kindness Days to lead up to Sunday when we celebrate the Resurrection of our Savior.  We have a box that we are taking with us, and we are going to write down the things that we do for anyone, and then on Sunday we are going to read them as a token of remembering what Christ's life was about and how we can always remember him when we are kind to others.

The kids and I had a great time starting things off today - after we dropped Jacob off to his Kindergarten class, the older kiddos and I went to the Dollar Tree to buy some needed items.  The kids are like magnets to the toy aisle & when they asked if they could have something and I told them they could each have a dollar....to leave for another child to have an item.  They each took a dollar and we came up with a note which we attached to an item and the dollar and then we left hoping that a child will walk down that aisle and find a dollar that they can buy a special surprise with.  The giving and act of kindness turned the children away from thinking about what they wanted - but guessing what another child would choose. 

My heart was so happy with their change of heart :)  We are planning some other acts of kindness over the next 2 days - and of course random acts will be part of the story, which followed us to our next errand.

We went to the D.I. located over at Welfare Square to find Bryson some short-sleeve shirts....he is a boy and goes through clothes so quickly!  When we first arrived they had 2 bins up front with new crocs that had just come in.  I stopped to do a quick look over & didn't see any in a size we'd need - as I turned to leave I heard the woman that had just come up in a wheelchair say, "Love, hand me those brown shoes so I can see them."  She had been talking to her husband who was behind her, however Bryson had turned to walk away and thought she was talking to him...he stayed and tried to get the brown shoes that the lady wanted...he was so cute trying to find a match and then when we handed them over to her, she looked right at him and said, "That was the kindest thing you did."  I agreed and put my arm around him - moments like these I tell you, it was a genuine proud mommy moment.  Fast & funny comparison is that when I dropped Jacob off at school, his friend Sam was at the door and he yelled out to Jacob, "Hey!  I did a great burp at the table last night!"  What?!  I looked at his mom and she said, "Oh, Jacob is quite the legend at our house.  We hear all the time that he can burp on command."  I shook my head no, but the smile on my face admitted that I am indeed a mother of boys who will do certain things that I just don't understand!  I continue and will always teach manners - but there are times when I feel like I'm competing against the brick wall that is named "BOYHOOD".   Some times you just don't win against the wall.

And, now back to the D.I. - first off, I must confess  I am a thrift store nut - and D.I. has become my new addiction to check-in on at least once a week to find good deals on home goods and clothing...really anything as books, furniture, drapes and the like have found a way into my cart and then into our home :)  I've found myself wishing that I didn't have to go grocery shopping and buy food when I'd rather just shop at D.I. and spend money there!

We scored in a great way today!  First, we found a bike for $4!  Bryson has really wanted a bike and I'm going to use that as his reward for his first 10 stars - he is so excited!  We then found more than enough shirts for Bryson and even a few for Jacob - we had 28 hanging on the handles of the shopping cart when we finally made it over to the dressing room....some were too big or were a strange fit on him, but not to worry we still walked out with a good dozen or so t-shirts ($1 each - love that price!), and about 4 dress shirts...we looked at Target the other day and the most inexpensive t-shirt was $3.99....I got 4 t-shirts for that price at D.I.!  In fact, I was super ecstatic because I had just purchased a new button-down for Bryson's Easter shirt yesterday (it was on sale and a great price) - however I found one almost identical for 1/3 of the price.  And even better - I couldn't find a shirt for Jacob yesterday - but today I found his easter shirt as well and for the same price...the two shirts combined were still less than I had paid for just the one shirt of Bryson's....which will be returned very shortly :)  

The very best part - my kids love to thrift shop with me :)  Madeleine loves to look through the racks and find her own hidden gems...which is like her outfit here.  Yesterday we found the top at Gymboree and it was on sale, plus my coupon the shirt came to about $2.50.... which is a good deal.  Today, while going through the racks she found the pair of capris she is wearing and brought them over to me - she was already wearing her new top and said, "Mom, do you think these pants will go with this top?"  I looked at them and said a quick yes, and then did a double-take.  I checked the tag and sure enough it was a Gymboree label and in a size 10...how perfect was that?  It's from the exact same line that Gymboree puts their clothing into.  Only more perfect because they are in mint condition and only $2..score!  I could go on & on about thrifting - but I'll write more in another post and do a tour of the house and everything purchased that way.  The only thing I am more excited about than thrifting is knowing that Yard Sale season is close at hand....I can't wait!!  

We are FAMILY

Yesterday after we enjoyed our day of skiing we tried to zoom out to the Lord Family Talent Show...I thought we'd be more on time, but heating up dinner and getting everyone out of ski clothes and into comfy clothes took awhile, and we were waiting for Bryson to arrive home from work. We arrived a half-hour late, and amazingly enough the talent show was already under way...the Lord Family can be known to be a little late on starting events, but they were on the ball that night (too bad for us!).

The kiddos were excited to share a talent - before we got there :) Madeleine was deciding between a violin or piano piece - unfortunately she decided once we were there she didn't want to play....hopefully next time :) Bryson loves doing his magic tricks for a crowd & did a great job on 4 different little tricks - he always looks so calm & composed....I wonder if he gets nervous at all but he loves an audience & has surprised us with how easily he takes to a "stage". Jacob was going to dance....whenever we have music on he dances around in his own style - easy but fun :). He also brought his big Lego castle, which unfortunately a broke a piece of while we were driving & then when we got there I broke almost half of it trying to fix the first broken part! He didn't want to go up once we were there - so I think I helped give him an easy out.

Becca & Rachel (Nate & Lauren's girls) did their Sisters act from White Christmas...they were adorable & both would do the cutest & funniest expressions! That number will have to be a tradition!

A fun close to the night was Grandpa Lord & Grandma Anita singing a new version to 'It's a Small World' - they are so cute together & were so sweet with everyone performing - it was such a fun night! Aunt Marianne had put Easter eggs together for all the young ones & after the performances the kids scampered around on the grass to find their eggs - it was a fast scamper as the weather was quite cold that day!

Today we drove up to Ogden for more family! We went Easter & spring shopping with Brooke & her girls. The kiddos adore having younger cousins they can run around with - and Madeleine is always happy to just hold the littlest one ;). We scored some great finds at Gymboree & I found most of the outfits for this Easter Sunday - thankfully Gymboree had kids shows running for entertainment & Sears...well you can find plenty to enjoy there if you use your imagination! Jacob kept asking if we could go back & exercise!

Jacob was lucky & got to skip his Kindergarten class again today - he had his spring break 3 weeks ago & is benefiting from having the easiest schedule to miss out on for a day here and there...he definitely isn't complaining!  We enjoyed some park time & found this huge nest someone had made out of big sticks & twigs on the lawn --- the boys hopped in to be baby birds while Madeleine knows very well how to be mother hen ;)

The best part of the park was watching Jacob zoom across the monkey bars! He had tried to get that down while we lived in NY - and now he has it figured out! Kids grow up too fast & as much as you want them to learn & be able to do all these new things....at times it's bittersweet that they can do so much on their own. I noticed today I'm at the phase where I'm much more of an observer park Mom, than active toddler park mom...until they needed me to swing, twist & turn all 3 of them on the tire swing. Whew! It's nice to still ne needed for a few things ;)

It do love having them home this week - it's only the 2nd day of break and it is already going to fast!  How I love my three...

Best Day Ever!

I love the movie Tangled & the part when she finally gets down from the tower is hilarious. "Blondie" goes between running around full of incredible joy and shouting "best day ever!" at her new freedom  - or she sits down in hysterical crying moments of guilt she feels betraying her mother....the scenes are both repeated often and they make me laugh, but I do love most when she is shouting at the top of her lungs that it is indeed the best day.  Ever.

Although I don't often like to exclaim that something is the best, worst, funnest, most delicious, etc...I do enjoy a best day when it comes along. Today happened to be such a day.

I took the kiddos skiing today to enjoy their first day of Spring Break & to enjoy some new snow that fell yesterday. I'm usually not a fan of snow in April - but living by the mountains has changed me to wanting as much snow for as long as possible! We went skiing a week and a half ago when my sister Celeste's family was here for their Spring Break. We chose the warmest day & put the kids in afternoon lessons & then I helped out on the tow rope with my 3 and her middle 2 - yes, 5 children on a rope tow. Thankfully I'm not inclined to use rope in destructive ways - but the first 30 minutes was torture! Everyone was falling off the rope tow & causing back-ups & then if we were lucky to go down the hill they were either dominoes falling upon one another or they would put their skis together (french fries as they call it) and zoom down the mountain Kamakazi style...I stopped breathing a few times & had never lifted so many children up in my life! Something happened after that first 30 minutes - the kids found their rhythm & whether or not they actually did listen to what I said...either they did take it to heart or they just started to put their skis in a pizza and do wider turns!  It was suddenly magical watching these 5 kidlets zooming up the rope tow & staying on 95% of the time now - their form was really improving & there were some real legitimate turns!

We stayed skiing on the rope tow from about 3 until 5pm when the resort shut down & we were finally asked to leave :). I loved all the smiles & the satisfaction that the kids knew they had really practiced what they had learned in lessons & what mom/crazy Aunt Summer would shout to them from wherever we happened to be on that rope tow hill. That part of the mountain even survived - the fence that corrals people into where the line takes you to catch the rope tow had taken a little beating with multiple kids running into it or using it as a pole to swing them up onto the snow "ramp"....but thankfully we never knocked it down. Close but not all the way :)

Although we had to say good-bye to the Sessions the next day & it was much more fun to ski together - my kiddos have begged to go again. When the forecast predicted snow before spring break I knew we had one day's activity set!

We spent the early afternoon on the rope tow & with the first few runs I got excited about how well they were doing! Madeleine was doing more turns & keeping her body held straighter (something her teacher had mentioned specifically to work on). Bryson & Jacob were getting more confident & before long we were going all the way up to the top of the rope tow & not getting off in the middle. The ski school had said when the kids were at that level it was time to hit the chair lift.

Thankfully the rope tow is free & then Alta has a Ski After 3 program where it's only $10 to ski the bottom 3 lifts for the first time you buy the pass - each time after you can refill your card for only $5 a time. What a deal!

We took a short break which involved hot chocolate and a near melt-down from Jacob. An angel of a lady came by & offered us all some chocolate Easter candy she had brought up....all angels should carry chocolate :). As much as I wanted to take the kids up on the Sunnyside lift I thought Jacob might have that break-down on the mountain & I don't walk down mountains....at least with snow on them. They are made to ski on & I crossed my fingers all would work & off we pushed to the ski lift.

And oh what a funny scenario occurred within the first few minutes at that ski lift!  It didn't end up involving a melt-down, but by the end I was never so glad to just get to sit down on the chair lift and not have to do anything for the next 5 minutes except just ride and take in the scenery!  I am someone that has traveled often & usually it was with my kids and usually alone.  I could navigate any part of the airport - taking bags in to check-in & the security gate...nothing phases me when traveling because I've done it so often & I've developed a tough skin to things that could possibly unglue others...and definitely have unglued other young mothers that I have seen through the years.  Going through airport security is not my favorite activity in life - but it's manageable. Well, the security line has met it's match in the chair lift line. WOWZA!- that was a comical site trying to get 3 kids through these new gates they have - it's like metal detectors but smaller & they read the bar code on your ski pass so you can supposedly zoom through....supposedly being the key word in our story. First of all, the lift line can be problematic for beginner skiers - people who are still working to keep their balance on 2 long poles that your feet are attached to & then you need to navigate yourself through a ropes course of sorts....some skiers have a hard enough time navigating their way on a huge mountain, a narrow ropes course can be traumatic! I know it was for us....at the time, now it's just funny!

Jacob was standing in a line, when Madeleine skied into the line and collided with him.  When she tried to move around him she ended up pushing him down then fell on top of him.  It was a rough start!  When they were finally back up on their skis and we were all together (sort of) - the kids were in front of me trying to go thru the gates when the man working asked where the cards were...of course I had all 4 tucked into the pocket which was the most complicated to get into. He was trying to be patient - most people around us were as well....it's times like these I wish we could have personal license plates that would identify we were an out of state people, therefore we don't know the local way of going through the ski gate :). We finally made it through, only to realize that the chair lift was for 3 people & we had 4 - yikes! I quickly thought about putting Madeleine with another party, but people had started to lose their patience and were pushing past us. Thankfully Madeleine & Bryson said they would ride together so I could ride with Jacob....which was a great solution, but it did cause my mama heart to skip a beat. My 2 children on a chair lift alone? Oh please don't let them fight & push each other off that thing! Why do they have height requirements at Disney but not on chair lifts that are dangling dozens of feet in the air?!!! Finally, I decided to let them try....a rather generous offer because if it doesn't work out I'm pretty sure there isn't a next time :/

The beauty of your children growing up - is that suddenly they are ready to do things that you had no idea they were ready for. Those 2 kiddos went onto the chair (well they did miss one but that was my fault for assuming they remembered how to get onto the chair from 2 years ago!) - anyway they pulled the bar down after my mama bear self shouted at them from the next chair back some last minute directions.  They were completely fine riding up together....they even did it twice! I still don't know if they talked - but I hope that year by year by being stuck on the same chair lift they'll start to talk and really enjoy the time together - I always loved talking to the person I was riding up with!

We took Sunnyside & kept to the easiest part of the trail possible - which although "easy" it's still a mountain & some hills are rather sizable. I remember being the kids age & looking down some of those same hills & thinking I would fall off the edge of the earth by going over the edge to try & ski down! All 3 did great! Jacob skied between my legs on the really steep parts for the first run, but the second time down he only stayed with me on the first hill & was off on his own skiing next to one of us all the way down.

I got the biggest thrill looking over and having one of my children skiing next to me! It was the best!  I don't know why it hit me the way it did - but I wanted to shout out "Look - I am skiing with my children!  We are just skiing together on this mountain.  Wahooooooo!!!"  Perhaps it's because I'm not big into sports.  I will go and kick or throw a ball around for fun, but besides tennis which I do love....I was always so afraid I'd get hit in the head with a ball that I just didn't proactively play sports. Skiing is a sport that I have always loved - being on a mountain as close to heaven as I can physically get myself on earth is amazing! I love the rush of zooming down the mountain & that it's something you are in control of and that you can do with as many or few people as you want with you. When we married, Bryson & I realized our skiing loyalties lie in different areas....he likes to ski on water in its liquid state, while I prefer it in the frozen state. We want the kiddos to try both - but for myself as much as I have tried water skiing I just don't feel the same thrill as I do skiing down a mountain.  The feeling of being pulled behind a boat versus letting yourself fly down a mountain is apples & oranges - they both use skis but the feel & taste of each is so different!

I wish we had more skiing days left! I wish I had more money to spend on ski rentals & lift ticket prices....skiing is a "gentleman's" sport in that I think those sports are the most expensive! (ex - golf!). I'm looking forward to scouring D.I. and yard sales to find our own skis in the next few months. I look forward to skiing on many early-out Fridays next year to enjoy the Ski After 3 program much more often! I look forward to having Madeleine sign up for the 6th grade ski classes thru the school next year. Basically I look forward to any & all parts of skiing...well, except for the boot fit, I don't think they ever get to the point of feeling "great".

It truly was the best day to spend with the 3 cutest kids who were so ecstatic about their progress & accomplishments today!

We really did have THE BEST DAY EVER!

p.s. The gloves, skis & boots Jacob wore are the same that I and my sisters used! Those gloves are amazing - like many things today they just don't make things like they used to! The skis were harder for him to use - I think we'll use them to decorate with & get the newer skis so he isn't tripping over the tips of those long skis! (they were the right size - the styles have just changed for the better over the years thankfully!)

p.p.s - I wrote this entire post on my iPhone....my finger is now in the running for being as sore as my legs are from today!....but I wanted to keep the goal of writing today :)

So long until next ski day....we can't wait!!! 

no foolin'

I've determined that the only hope I have of getting back into the routine of writing is to bind myself to a schedule that will force...okay, maybe not force....encourage (yes) me to write more often.

I can see this being a benefit on a few fronts....

One.  I like routines & schedules.  I never thought I'd have to schedule in my hobbies, but that is the phase of life I'm in.

Two.  I might actually start writing in a more concise manner.  I tend to start to write an entry and I get so caught up in that I have to state everything and have it be rather perfect.  Well, that perfection has gotten me a long list of entries that are all dated to the specific day of an event - but I got too caught up in trying to tell everything that I'm really behind in telling something.

Therefore, as it's a new month I want a new goal to write something each day.  Just something.  It can be whatever - and I've thought about making a theme for each day, however I like to be scheduled but not constricted...so I'll have to see on this one.

I realize the irony of this as I make this goal on April Fool's Day - but this is no foolin'....I promise to write something each day.  And, for good measure I'm going to post something for today besides this declaration. How is that for a great start?!

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Friday evening I took the kiddos to a movie as Bryson was flying back into town from a business trip to Mexico.  The kiddos and I love to see movies, but Bryson detests sitting through a movie.  When he is out of town or working late, it's our time to have a little outing to a show.  We have wanted to see Big Miracle (the story of the 3 trapped whales in Alaska and yes it was a fantastic show!), so off we went.  When we came out of the movie, there were 3 ducks waddling by the side of the road where cars quickly come in & out of the complex.  A few people voiced their concerns that the ducks would get run over & after seeing a movie about 3 animals that needed to be saved I thought the timing rather ironic for the ducks to play out this scene.  As we walked to other side of the street, a man ran towards the ducks and it startled them so much that they took flight and started to fly right towards us.  Jacob let out a shriek and did the fastest drop to his tummy that I have every seen!  When the ducks had flown over our heads, he got up looking a little shaken.  I asked him if he was okay and I had the sudden desire to laugh....really hard.  A chuckle leaked out, and he looked at me..."It's not funny Mom!  They were flying right at me & I thought the duck would fly into my head!"

I know that he was saving himself for the possibly duck attack...but it really was funny.  I get a really strong urge to laugh and get  a big smile when I think about that one.  :)

Also I volunteered in Jacob's Kindergarten class that day and the first thing that struck me is that Jacob and 2 of his buddies are like the 3 Stooges - and thankfully one of the boys has a big head of curly hair so I dubbed them Larry, Mo & Curly....Jacob is now Mo :)  They said in a line on the carpet for the opening activity and the boy on the outside would bring his hand up and hit himself on the head, then the next boy would do it and then the last boy...then it would go back to the boy in the middle and on to the end.  They did this a few times before I really caught on and moved Jacob away.  It's not good classroom behavior - but inside I had a laugh at these characters...seriously, where do boys get their energy and ideas to behave in such crazy ways?  I watched the girls that day...completely mellow, serene and on top of the lessons with the answers.  This could be another post on the differences each gender needs in their learning styles - but let's just keep it at I had a laugh at those 3 Little Stooges today...another time I'll go on my soap-box about how boys need a different learning environment :)

There was another incident as well that was really hilarious.  while the class was on the carpet area being led in 'Do As I'm Doing' by the lead student teacher, she paused for a brief moment and looked towards the bathroom then said, "Um, _______ needs a little help in there."

The other student teachers and parent volunteers looked behind us into the open concept restroom they have (Jacob and I aren't fond of this idea but it's what they have for both the Pre-K & Kindergarten classes that share the space), and a student teacher quickly made her way into help the little guy.

We caught sight of his bare bottom as he stood in the middle of the floor surrounded by ribbons of toilet paper stretched all over the room!  I don't think all the toilet paper was exactly clean and he was in the process of trying to wipe and finish his business.  It was the scene that broke the tension of a long Friday afternoon with a bunch of 5 and 6 year old children that were acting like little monkeys that day.

I tried to stifle a laugh, but it was no use.  And all the other adults started to laugh as well. Thankfully our bodies at the back of the circle blocked the view from all of the students....they thought we were laughing about the actions for the song and so they started to laugh, which made us laugh harder...and honestly, it was so fabulous to have a big laugh right then.  I don't know the last time I have laughed that hard or at such an innocent act...but it was great.

My goal this month.....laugh more.  Laugh deeply.  Enjoy the moments in each day to laugh with and about.

Kids are great entertainment!  

walking on sunshine

Today was a beautiful day - the weather was extremely fantastic

and warm for this time of year - high 60's! I came out from helping in Bryson's classroom & just wanted to do a heel kick from excitement...the weather is amazing and we have our children in some really awesome schools!

I've been thinking lately about how blessed we have been with the schools where the children attend right now. As I was walking out from helping out in Bryson's classroom, I was hit not only by the intense warm rays from the sun - but I started to put together why I love the new schools and situation so much. Here are my top reasons why I absolutely adore our school situation right now:

* Madeleine and Bryson's school let parents volunteer. In their OWN child's classroom! This might sound so basic it's ridiculous - however, parents were not welcome to help in our own child's class in the city. We were looked upon as almost the enemy - we couldn't help anywhere at the school without going to get a Learning Leader certificate with the district which was really a pointless certificate stating that you were a parent that should have the common sense to do the things they were teaching in the class :) Even with a Learning Leader Certificate - you were not allowed to help in your own child's class - it would be with another teacher. I love helping in many ways for the good of education - but I want to help where my children are. I want to make an immediate impact for them - and even though I don't help my child the entire time I am in their classroom, I know that they are aware that I care enough about them, their class and their school experience that I have made the time to volunteer. I love seeing their eyes light up when I come in - even Madeleine will give me a genuine smile :) It's incredible for me - and the perk is that I get some really cute hugs from the little girls in his class...it helps me remember how fun it was to teach and have so many hugs from my own students.

* As a parent it's nice to know that I can walk into Madeleine's & Bryson's school and that I can act as a grown-up and sign myself in on a Volunteer sheet and get my own volunteer badge and walk to my child's classroom. There is no security guard and multiple books that I need to sign-in when I get to the school - the hoops we were made to jump through in NYC made me so upset & it only got worse before I left....the Principal wanted to track the PTA's every move and so she upped the amount of times we would have to sign in. It had gotten out of control & ridiculous...and although there are times when I worry that Utah might be a little too trusting and that anyone could walk in (not always with a child's best interest in mind and to help out in their class or for some other event)....in the big picture I have to think that there are hundreds of schools like this that allow parents and volunteers to come & go in the school as needed to help and give benefit to the educational experience.

* I love that on average then there are usually 2-3 parents that help in Bryson's class each day! In Madeleine's class there are about 2-3 parents a week - there aren't as many as the class is older and the teacher's have chosen not to utilize parent volunteers as much...however, parents are still regular helpers. And the very best is Jacob's class - each day he has between 6-8 adults in his class of 14 students! That is one of the best ratios I've ever seen for a class! The reason the adult number is so high is not only because they require parents to be part of a co-op experience (we need to volunteer at least 6 times during the semester and each time is the entire school day) - they also are able to have the students who are part of the Early Childhood Education program at the U of U come in as part of their Internship and Student Teaching. The students don't change day to day either - there is a group that is there Monday - Wednesday and then another group on Thursday & Friday. I love their enthusiasm for teaching and being with this little munchkins day after day - every so often I'm a bit jealous that Ms. Rachel has so many students that help her, but then again she is in charge of a lot of their practicum within the classroom.

I am really so happy that things have settled in a way that has put the children in these schools and with their teachers. I didn't talk about their teachers as much in this post - but I will....Teacher Appreciation Day is coming up in two weeks & I've been able to find many cute ideas on Pinterest to give to the teachers and I'm going to do a post on why we have enjoyed the teachers that the children have in their new schools.

So happy to be walking on sunshine these days in a school....it sure beats walking on the eggshells I & other parents were on at 217!

And in honor of Dr. Seuss and his birthday, here is his quote on having such a great day :)

"Today was good. Today was fun. Tomorrow is another one." ~ Dr. Seuss

catching memories

Blogging rut.

I dislike when this happens - stories and life moves on, and thankfully there has a been a bit more time to spend on that life happening....however, I have realized how precious saving memories are.

Madeleine celebrated her 10th birthday in February and I put together a little memory book of pictures and about her 7th birthday that we celebrated in Disneyland.
It was so much fun to put the book together for her & see her light up while looking through the pictures and read the captions.
The part I wish I could have done better - putting in more details! Not about when or where we were - but what she did and said during those days and the little yet big parts of life. I love the quotes that the children say, the cute things they do which I'm always sure will stay cemented in my head...but with passing of time the memories slip out like water. Not very cement-y I've come to realize.

I'm also in a funk as I've been reading blogs - oh the many blogs on this internet! Between organizing blogs, design blogs, and blogs about Activity Day ideas (yeah, new calling!) & others...I've been wondering what is this blog? Besides it being the main place to write about our family and our memories, I want it to convey a message about me (the writer), some thoughts and feelings I and the family have and of course the reason the blog exists - to express the ins & outs of our "normal'ish" daily life.

Anyway....it's just taking a while to get into a new groove with where we live, new routines & making sure it's all properly (love that word) documented.

So, although this is more of a rambling start than I had planned on, it helped me start to write again. It has me thinking of the potential and that even if it's a few lines - I need to continue writing down our memories. They are just too precious not to.

Happy Valentine's Day!