out sick or playing hookey?

Jacob was home sick this entire week - a nasty cold with cough, weepy eyes and hardly any energy at the beginning of the week.  Yesterday (Thursday) he was starting to feel better, so I was going to have him go to school today, but he was still so tired this morning when I went to wake him up, that I figured we'd just go for one straight week of no school, which then made 2 weeks off of school since last week was Spring Break.

The sun came out around lunch time, and Jacob wanted to eat outside, so I set him up on the lounge chair with his Nutella and strawberry sandwich.  I went in to get something and saw him leaning back on the chair, with his Nutella mustache.  I grabbed my camera and started to take pictures between the blinds, and then Jacob realized he was being photographed by Mom/his Paparazzi.

 

 Realizing mom was photographing - so he pulled his hat down really quick!   

  

 

 

 

 

before & after

During the kid's spring break we took a day to clean the basement room which combines the boy's bedroom/play room/family room.  Emilia was asleep for most of it, but she woke up as we were trying to finish and so I set her on the couch to observe the activity.

I looked over when Madeleine exclaimed, "Hey, this is how Emilia will look with hair!"

She looks thrilled to finally have hair, right?!

So, here are the before & after pictures of Emilia....

Before

After 

I might joke that I wish my babies were born with more hair...okay, just hair in general.  The boys are always bald, bald....and the girls have a very small amount of "fuzz".  However, when I see pictures like this, it makes me laugh and realize that this little gal will grow hair when she's ready, and that will give us plenty of time to adjust to the thought of hair on her cute little (almost) bald head!  

fire boy

Along the lines of learning through projects and experiments - I have another post about Bryson.

The Saturday before Easter (3/30) we woke up late morning and had our crepe breakfast with lots of fruit...and lots of Nutella and whipped cream!  After breakfast we divvyed up the Saturday jobs and everyone scattered to their part of the house to work on their list.  However, around mid-day we all sort of started to trickle outside.  The sun was shining so brightly and the weather was absolutely gorgeous for being the end of March.  Work around the yard was taking place in different ways - the boys were helping Bryson Sr. pull out a stump from a juniper bush that I wacked away at last fall...I detest juniper bushes!  I was so thankful that he finally hooked the stump up to a chain on the Explorer and yanked out the eyesore of the last part of that bush.  Good riddance....why juniper bushes were created I know not, but it must be in there along with why we have snakes.  

I started to rake up the backyard and pile up the dry leaves, while Madeleine helped a bit and then started to clean out the little playhouse.  The boys were sweeping out the carport and piling up the dead leaves, when I think it hit Bryson hard --- dead, FLAMMABLE leaves, bright sun & finally time to try his magnifying glass again!  He tried this last fall a few times, and never was able to get a flame ignited.  This time - he was patient and lucked out that the leaves were very dry and the sun perfectly hot to bore through that magnifying glass and make an 8 year old boy's heart leap with joy that he started a fire!  

As a mom - especially a mom of boys - I'm learning to not freak out with experiments.  At least not freak out in a major way.  I did tell him he needed to move his original experiment as it was leaving a burn mark on the cement (I hope we don't have to pay for that one when we move out!), and that there were two rules:  he had to tell a parent when he was going to try to make a fire with his magnifying glass & that he always have a pitcher of water close by...for a 'just in case' moment.  Therefore, I give you Fire Boy & the water brigade :) 

Bryson took his fire making experiment to a new level in creating this trail to the Big Kahuna of a fire pit, which never did ignite, but he burned up most of the trail leading to it!  It just didn't start and then run along the trail as he hoped --- the flame would start up and burn what was right around it and then die out, and Bryson would need to start again.  I don't think he minded that he had to start over...it was all part of the learning experience and enjoyment of this activity!

Bryson was fully engaged with creating a fire for all of the afternoon.  After the shade moved in on this area, he moved his fire to an old fireplace or barbeque that is made out of big rocks and has a big box opening where Bryson set up trying to make more fire.

This past General Conference, I thought of little Bryson out there making his fire during President Monson's talk on obedience.  He told the story that as a young boy of 8 years old, he learned a very important lesson on obedience, when he and a friend set fire to some weeds in a field they wanted to clear in Vivien Park (up Provo Canyon).  He told how he knew he was forbidden to play with matches, but that he knew where his family kept them, and he took them without asking or anyone knowing.  He set fire to the weeds, which took the fire like they were drenched in gasoline and instead of only burning as many weeds as the boys wanted (they had wanted to clear a big circle so they could make a campfire that evening) - the fire kept burning, and finally they needed to call for help otherwise the fire would have spread to the pine trees and then cabins nearby.  After hours of men & women running around with drenched burlap bags, the fire was put out and the boys learned a valuable lesson on being truly obedient and following the rules set in place.

As long as Bryson is obedient when he does his experiments, or projects and that he can learn quickly from any mistakes....I think we'll have a great time as he continues to try out new projects and ideas that he wants to see how they work.  

When he has a drive and a goal - there is no stopping this boy!  He was so focused on getting his fires started all afternoon....now if only his fire of learning could be lit all the time, but I have a feeling we are getting closer to figuring out how to make that happen for him.

I love our Fire Boy!

Rainy Day {Un}Schooling

It was pouring rain today.  All day long.  Jacob was home sick - he got a nasty cold virus at the end of spring break & today he woke up with weepy eyes, as if the rain outside had somehow snuck inside of him and started to rain there as well.  Bryson Jr. has been having a hard time sleeping at night, for oh what is now weeks, and last night he came into our room somewhere in the middle of the night and said he'd had a nightmare.  He camped out on the floor.  Again.  When I tried to wake him up for school, he was so groggy and cranky and when he said he was tired I believed him.  I was too - Emilia had been up and down all night, and I think my total hours of sleep was 5 - but that wasn't consecutive.  I decided to just keep the boys home and have an easy day.  I'm so glad I did.  

                                             

I started to think about school.  Especially for Bryson Jr.  We haven't seemed to struck on the right chord for his schooling as of yet.  Although we were excited to find this gifted program at Morningside, the class does not do as many projects as we had thought they would.  We love project based learning for all our children, and Bryson particularly needs to be fully engaged in the entire learning project, or he becomes bored.  Fast.  He tells me almost every day that he doesn't want to go to school because he is bored.  He's not making excuses - he truly is bored.  He is witty and smart and catches on to things so quickly, so unless there is something that peaks his interest and immerses him in the learning project with as many of his senses as possible...he is bored.  I was talking about school options with Brooke last night during our family dinner, and I am still pondering where & when we'll find the right niche for Bryson.  I started to search online today at different charter and private schools, and asked the Facebook world if anyone know of some great project based learning schools in the area.  In the back of my mind is that thought that perhaps home schooling is in the answer somehow, I'm just now sure how.    

 I've started to learn that when Bryson wants to experiment and try something out, he has usually got his mind engaged full-throttle and he is going to learn something out of the experience.  I haven't taken initiative as I should and might do with these moments to talk about what he is learning and turn it into some lesson...I just want him to experience being a boy, having fun, and connecting some kind of dots somewhere in his head to come to his own 'aha' moment.

 Today, I did suggest that we put out a tupperware to catch the rain fall so that we could see how much it rained.  He wasn't overly impressed with the rainfall in the tupperware by the afternoon, but something else clicked in his brain, and he quickly donned his rain coat, put on his winter boats (because as he said they are more waterproof than his rain boots - "because snow is more wet than rain, Mom!") and put on his gloves to go out and experiment with the rain falling.

 He was so happy to be out there in the rain....I love this smile he flashed once he realized I was taking pictures through the glass door.  Not only was he having fun with whatever experiment he was conducting - I was having a good time trying a new setting on my camera and loving the fact that I switched the basic lens for my zoom lens so I could capture his facial expressions better!

 I'm not sure what the point was of his "study" this day - it had something to do with trying to transport the extra water that builds up in this little flood zone that accumulates in the backyard and then take the water and dump it in the plants at the back of the yard.  He was outside for a good 15-20 minutes just enjoying his little project - so happy to be outside, even though he was sopping wet!

I'm so hopeful that we'll find the right experience for this boy that will take his bright and inquisitive mind and open it up to new and amazing ways of discovery!  Having boys I have noticed how much more they need the physical exertion when they are learning - it truly is a whole-istic experience for them, especially for this boy!  When he has the opportunity to get his whole body into what he is wanting to do, than he is ready to learn.

How lucky we are that we have this life to experiment, learn and grow.

Madeleine - 11 years

Madeleine turned 11 in February and I finally got around to taking her out to get her "birthday" photos.  The thought of taking them in February was cold, snowy/wet and not easy with a newborn.  Now that the weather is improving, and colors are out  - the timing of spring break meant I didn't need to rush a photo shoot. 

We spent Wednesday afternoon downtown at Liberty Park & then dinner with Bryson at work.  After that, Madeleine changed and we drove down to Temple Square to walk around and take photos.  The sun was just beginning to set and it cast a gorgeous glow on the grounds.  Madeleine has always been photogenic, and usually a great model willing to let me take her pictures.  Tonight was a fun evening & I won't be able to wait a full year when she turns 12 to do another photo shoot!

Madeleine's 'Singin' in the Rain' pose - she went to see the play at Olympus High School with Nana, Grammy & Becca last week.  She thought it was wonderful & when she saw the light post she wanted to reenact part of the play!

 This action shot makes me smile - I love her feet skipping along the bricks!...such a happy picture :)

 Jumping for joy that spring is here!

  Such a great big sister to Emilia!  This little gal had just woken up & had a little grumpy face.  Madeleine cuddled and held her close, until we got a few smiles out of her.

A little interview of Madeleine at age 11 ~

My favorite food: lasagna  

My favorite thing to do: read and write  

The greatest person in the world (universe): Heavenly Father

My best subjects in school: language arts, writing, and history

I'm really great at: school and music

If I could change my name, I would choose: Emma or Amy

My favorite color: green

When I grow up I want to be: an artist, teacher, or fashion designer

My parents are too strict about: rules  

My favorite song: 'That's What Makes You Beautiful' (One Direction) & Twenty-Two (Taylor Swift)  

My favorite book: any book by Shannon Hale (Princess Academy)
Words that describe me: talented, lovable, full of smiles  

When I was little: I used to act like a princess

My favorite scripture story is: when Jesus was born and crucified  

My favorite primary song is: Heavenly Father Loves Me 
My favorite seasons are: spring and fall

My favorite snack is: graham crackers & milk
The food I don't like: salad
My best friends are: Rebecca Hinckley, Ella Larson, and Emma Marchant
If I had one wish it would be: that I could move from house to house freely - because I want to live in different places
The best thing that has happened to me this year is: my sister Emilia was born & that I could go skiing with Trieste & Lilly
One thing I want to learn to do this year is: how to surf (when we're in Hawaii)  
The most important lesson I've learned this year is: spending time with someone else is more fun that spending time by yourself