Friday, November 25, 2011

very thankful

It might sound very materialistic...but today one of the greatest things I am thankful for is my wedding ring. I love it for all it symbolizes...however, I just love IT. And for having it back.

I haven't been able to find it for over a week. I went to put my ring on last week, and could only find my wedding band in my jewelry case. I looked through the little boxes where my other jewelry is housed, thinking I had dropped it into the wrong area. It wasn't there. I thought it might be in the car, up front where I dropped it into a water holder when I was putting lotion on my hands after church - however, I finally drove somewhere yesterday and the ring was not in the car like I hoped.

I asked Bryson (Sr.) if he were planning some surprise with my ring, and had taken it out to SL with him last week - that was about the last time I had seen it. He promised he hadn't - and I was partially relieved, but then frantic because I had no idea where my ring was. I offered the children $10 if they could find my ring. Where was it?!

Today, as the children were helping me to put up the Christmas decorations - they found a set of boxes that I have which stack inside each other and they decided to play a game where they put a treasure in the smallest box, and make someone open larger boxes first, then smaller sizes until they get down to a box that is jewelry size. I overhead Jacob getting excited about his turn to find something special to put in the boxes & then he turned them over to Madeleine to open.

She opened and opened and then I heard her say, "Jacob, where did you find a ring like Mom's? Is this a play ring?" I thought he had perhaps taken a play ring which I did have and put into the garbage last week and so I came over to their play over slowly - but then when I saw the ring Madeleine was holding, I exclaimed, "That IS the ring - that is my real ring!" I was so happy and a bit frustrated at the same time - where had Jacob had my ring?! I asked him, and he told me that he loved my ring so much, he had taken it and put it into his drawer. I tried not to think how easily it could have been lost by this point - but thankfully it wasn't lost and now the entire situation was figured out and I put my ring back on and gave Jacob a hug and also a reminder NOT to touch Mommy's jewelry! I gave him a $1 since the ring was returned....I just didn't realize I would be paying the person that had taken the ring in the first place!

3 comments:

Claire said...

So glad you found it!!! Are you guys staying in NY for Christmas?

Brooke said...

That is so funny---and yet---sounds so familiar. I think losing things must run in the family, because I am constantly losing things.

Lori said...

ACK! Thank goodness you got it back! They become such a part of us after only a few years, don't they?
Matthew lost his at a flag football game our first year of the MBA. Sigh. Thankfully, he's a boy and was upset for, like, a week. I would still be crushed if it were my ring.